In 1754, at the age of 22 year old Washington was a colonel, once, as Virginia congressman election, Washingtonfor his support of candidates campaigning. When everything was getting on like a raging fire, there was a man named William Payne but everywhere speech, openly and Washington sang fandiao.One day, Washington and Payne launched a fierce debate, in two people give tit for tat, inflexibility, Washington indesperate talk cursed swearing. PAM felt insulted, immediately fly into a rage, with his fist to knock down inwashington.Washington's men rise to anger, hold up a meal ready to teach Payne, Washington was to persuade them toreturn to the camp, to prevent unrest. The next day, Penn received Washington trustee brought note, please him to a local tavern meet. Penn is regret for yesterday's impulse, he want to Washington must bear a grudge, must make a life and death duel with him. When Payne crustily skin of head came to the inn, make him unexpectedly, to meet his is not the cold pistol, but a cup filled with wine."Mr. Payne," Washington said earnestly, "I'm just a human being, will inevitably make mistakes, I should not offend you, I apologize to you, hope you can forgive me. And you also with blood fist reminded me of my men let me with his fist fight you, but I insisted on fist not to fight back, but to shake hands with your friends. If you want to cancel once for all the resentment, so, please hold my hand, and drink this cup of sweet wine -- let us be good friends!"Washington's "fist theory" let Penn immediately tears, he didn't think Washington not only did not blame him, butsincerely to he stretched out the olive branch. So, Payne ashamed to say: "I was supposed to ask for yourforgiveness is." Say that finish, hold Washington's hand, and then end up glass will wine in one gulp. From then on, Payne became the Washington fanatical admirers and hardcore supporters.When we are by others after the attack, might as well think of Washington's "fist theory", remember the fist is not to fight back, but to shake hands with your friends. In this way, you in dealing with people, would be less enemies,some more friends