Every marriage requires commitment, dedication and work. An international marriage requires even more attention because of the many obstacles that a couple faces. The obstacles come from family, friends, personal values, expectations, and bureaucratic procedures. They must admit and accept some disadvantages of their all know that in weatran countries,most of the people are Christian,in China and other southeast Asia area,people are believe in Buddhism,in some east Aisa the people are both of the couple are a pious Christian os Islamite,they need much more space to give each other,to understand,to tolerate,to compromise,because they will have more conflict that others who have the same in values. Such as the most of the European and American countries are the Capitalism countries,while China and some countries are the Communism the longtime influence by the government,education,or others,the people come from the different society will have the different opinions on the same instance,the Chinese believe in hardworking because hardworking can lead them to a happy,wise in some Capitalism countries they lead a life of pleasure,and they think they should enjoy the life in time,it needn't to be hardworking very , some details in daily life such as meals,housework or sex may also cause a divorce ’s concepts about marriage have changed,different from the tradictional ones,people take marriage not so they think they have conflict or unsuited to each other,or they fall in love with others,they’ll divorce at they divorce,the victim must be the children,because their parents can’t give them a complete a special couple which can absorb much more attention than others,the couple will suffer more pressure,from family,relatives,friends and outsiders may pay too many attention to the couple,or have a bad prospect on them ,or even doubt about their ’s harmful for the are many other disadvantages of International on the side,International marriage also have many more of another's live together,it need to try to contact and comprehend the culture and custom each other,and they can learn another culture and become the same time,they can be influenced by the spouse’s characteristics and good we know,the further the geographic distance is,the less gene a result,the mixed blood baby will be more clever and more ’s good for the children to grow up under two culture and the international marriage comes not easily,they go throuogh and overcome so much,and they will treasure the marriage and what they gain.